I just wanted to say good for you for having your rant and you should no way feel bad or be made to feel bad. You have obviously thought long and hard, have done your own research on your family history and are prepared to do what you have to do when your girls arrive.

when i was pregnant with DD i hadnt made up my mind, i also wasnt given the chance to learn about BF as all the classes were booked up. My choice was made in the hospital and to this day i know it was the best for my DD. She has excelled being FF, as have every baby i know who was.

And if anyone on here makes you feel bad they should be ashamed of themselves and i hope their comments are made via PM to you or not said at all as i will too bite them! Nobody has the right to tell another person what is best for their baby! Goes to show what a great mother you are already!

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